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October 6 - 12 , 2003

A Variation On a Theme

By Triana Èlan

I just read David Bentley’s latest column, "Make It Go Away." Since my colleague and good friend often run parallel in our thoughts and perceptions, I thought I’d throw in my two cents worth in the Escapism category (since I was going to anyway).

Here are a few things this middle-aged mare has discovered: The pop saying "The only way out of it is through it" doesn’t quite fit the ticket. There is no way out of pain, ever. It won’t go away. It gets our attention and we give it more attention than it may deserve.

Let’s put this into context: David’s comments about hearing what people said after a film hits the nail on the head...when our larger world spins out of control (which it has) and when we somehow grock that it’s going to get worse (which it will) and when we really ge that there’s not a whole lot we can do about it right now (which there isn’t), our opinions and beliefs become more sacred to us than anything else.

Sometimes pain can only be managed, at any level: Physically, emotionally. Our emotions are triggered by our beliefs and values, which are created in a rather simple and systematic way. The results and consequences of our behaviors around those belief systems are complex.

When things are happening on a larger scale that we can’t bear to think about and the trickle-down effect slams us up against the wall, our first instinct is to escape it. Fair enough. Nobody embraces pain or invites it unless they’ve gone off their rails. No animal likes pain, no matter how primitive the animal. So of course our first reaction to pain is to get out of it. The physical stuff is sometimes easier to deal with because we usually know the cause and can seek some kind of relief.

It’s the emotional stuff that gets tricky, and how we cope with it is as individual as we are. Emotional pain is going to happen. It’s part of life. But emotional pain changes us forever, little by little. If it changes us forever in one fell swoop that usually means trauma. But the ebb and flow of emotion is always with us, and since we give so much attention to what is hard and irksome and inconvenient, we often prolong it by trying to escape it. The feeble attempt to "confront it" also has its drawbacks. Why not just admit it, accept it and get on with it?

These are difficult times, to be sure. But when we look at our lives as a whole, pain is part of it. Emotional pain can be managed. It may never go away. But if we look at it and know that it has become a part of us and has somehow changed us, we can look at how we’ve changed rather than struggle to escape. Adapt and survive.

And here’s the kicker...what if we’re thriving and don’t even know it?!

Aries (March 21 - April 20):
Aries, take advantage of this week! Some things you have been struggling with will suddenly resolve themselves and you’ll be stymied as to how. It may have been that you had the patience to back off, or perhaps others had time to consider your ideas. In any case, you will find yourself able to move forward at a fresh pace. This is wonderful! Planetary aspects are better this week than they’ve been in a very long time so enjoy it.

Taurus (April 21 - May 20):
Due to a triple Trine (a very, very good thing), everybody gets a break this week, including you! You’ll make major headway now, especially if your head and heart are in balance. This trend is going to last for a couple of weeks, but you should be seeing the results now especially in the areas of work and health. Jupiter’s position in Virgo brings you extra ease in self expression and confidence...smile, stick to your guns and stay on course!

Gemini (May 21 - June 20):
Okay Gemini, this is the break you’ve been waiting for...a spectacular triple trine occurs in your fellow air signs, and suddenly you feel like you’ve been thrown a life ring. Don’t rest on your laurels, though...your new situation will involve some hard work but more in the realm of thought than physical labor (whew). Make those plans and have fun!

Cancer (June 21 - July 22):
No doubt there are things that take you out when you’d rather be in but this is a good thing. The dark days of winter will come soon enough and you’ll be able to hibernate. On Friday, Venus moves into introspective Scorpio. This may prompt you to take a new class or engage in some type of learning. Anything you can learn about human nature or the human condition will not be wasted. On the other hand, maybe you want to learn a craft or hobby. Whatever it is, learn it! Learning is fun.

Leo (July 23 - August 22):
A fabulous triple trine in air signs opens the week and if you’re paying attention to the good stuff, you’re likely to find a break you’ve been looking for. Go with it. A new opportunity to put your knowledge to use is offered and although you are reserved, you get a boost in confidence. Just don’t claim to be able to do more than you actually can. This week opens new doors for you. It’s about time!

Virgo (August 23 - September 22):
Virgo this week glows for you! If you’ve been brooding or pulling an attitude with yourself, give it a break and get social. You’ve likely pulled back from friends and social occasions but now is the time to get back out there. You don’t have to do anything special, just connect with people. This will bring you the lift you’ve been craving. You can’t do everything yourself, you know!

Libra (September 23 - October 22):
Okay Libra, this is it! This week opens with a fabulous triple trine involving your sign so pull out the stuff you’ve been postponing and go for it. Your sign is highlighted in the area of communication, so don’t procrastinate about getting in touch with others about your new idea, your dilemma, or whatever it is you want company for. Have a party! Celebrate the season and you’ll set yourself up for a fine rest of the year. Really! We’ve all been waiting for this break, so now that it’s here, seize the day!

Scorpio (October 23 - November 22):
Venus glides into your sign this week and blows kissed to Mars. You have a chance to shine, so take it! You are by nature introspective but the aspects for the week will serve you best if you make yourself available to others; accept the invitation, or invite others. Ideas flow now and you have what it takes to see things through. This is a very good window of opportunity; don’t waste it.

Sagittarius (November 23 - December 20):
Whew, this week opens with a spectacular triple trine in air signs, bringing you the energy boost you’ve been needing. If you act on it immediately and pay attention, you’ll be in fine shape. This is a week of new beginnings and any changeworthy behaviors can be remolded and brought into a new light. You have a winning streak in you, so get it out and polish it.

Capricorn (December 21 - January 19):
This week brings fresh information, innovative thoughts and ideas and inspiration for you. If you’ve been feeling a bit glum, quit it. Socialize, reconnect, and spin some thoughts. New doors are open this week, so have a look and pick the one you like. The Full Moon in Aries throws an extra kick into your activities over the weekend too. Your contacts and actions this week have the potential to last a long time so stay awake!

Aquarius (January 20 - February 19):
Well aren’t you just the lucky one. A fabulous triple trine in air signs brings a breath of fresh opportunities to you. This will be the week to make the connections and contacts, pull it together and make it go! Wow. Something like this doesn’t happen often and certainly hasn’t happened this year; take full advantage of it. Financially, Mars and Venus come together for you in a good way and present an opportunity to you that is worthy of your attention.

Pisces (February 20-March 20) Well it’s about darned time that something goes your way, Pisces! This week brings about some wonderful opportunities, not the least of which is Venus moving into intense Scorpio, embracing Mars in your sign. This adds a depth and perspective you’ve previously missed. A triple trine in air also stirs up the waters, and you will see movement in the direction you want to go. Don’t procrastinate!!

© 2003 by Triana J. Èlan

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Triana Elan has been a professional astrologer for nearly thirty years. Schooled by some of the best astrologers of modern day (Liz Greene and Leonie Starr of the UK; Lynn Richards and Robert Hand, U.S.), Triana has developed a unique and uncannily accurate method of delineating charts.

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